In todays dating world of the 30s 40s crowd, when do women feel that it's OK for a guy to start dating? Is after filing for divorce, but before the 6 mos (CA rules) run to finalize, good enough? If a guy fits the "highly desirable" definition (attractive, sucessful, high income, no kids, warm, giving, caring, open to someone with kids, or having kids with someone new) are women more likly to be more flexible (dating before a divorce is final) in dating that guy because they feel that some other women might beat them out? Guys in the 40s and 50s age group who meet this definition are really very scarce. Will women pursue them more agressivly instead of some very average to below average guy?